We were making love the other night and afterwards in the most delicious snuggle bubble were talking about how even though we have been together over two years now, the love making is way more amazing than when we first got together and all the fireworks were happening.I feel like there is this myth in relationships that being with one person might get boring after a while. I find the opposite to be true. The longer I’m with him, the more I love him, and the more we know each other’s bodies. We are still exploring and discovering new things together! And there is a foundation of ever building love and trust which helps both our bodies open even deeper.
Our mantra: best lives ever keep getting better. And the love making is definitely included in that.
LOVE is the most important element of s.exuality in my opinion.
A lot of modern neo tantra actually disgusts me. I feel a deep repulsion because I do not feel purity and sacredness in the teachings.My body opens when my heart opens. Sometimes I can have an instant heart opening with a man, but truly, the best s.ex for me has been when I feel the most in love and safe which happens with time.Most people don’t just want s.ex. They want connection. They want love. They want true intimacy. There is nothing like the deep soul revelry that happens when you are in deep loving presence.
Something that has been incredible to deepen into with the love making in this relationship is stillness. Stillness during lovemaking is just as important as movement. Coming back to “stillness” makes you realize that you can never be perfectly still. It’s so potent to feel the subtle current of breath pulsing between you and your lover. By putting attention towards the micro-sensations, we can allow them to become even more pleasurable. This makes orgasms even more potent!
Making love is like ocean waves. After a deep build and orgasmic crash, I love to pause and come back to stillness. From this place, feeling the subtle sensations and how much pleasure is in the stillness and little micro movements. Breathing deeply. Snuggling.
Slowing down helps us to sensitize even more!
I call it snuggle lovemaking.
Prioritize your pulsing longing
Your wet and dripping
Your ecstatic trembling
Your holy remembering
God is in your body
No more pretending
Stop hiding
Rip off the binding
From the book of the ages
Let the scroll unravel
Starlight dancing blood across eternity
Come home to this body
I have tasted a frequency that if felt fully would disarm me completely
I’d be a wandering mystic bound to nothing constantly singing
In a language never thought by the mind
One that reverberates through every vibration
Outside of time along the mother vine
Forgiveness divine
Lineage of love making the wine
Pour it down my throat
Whole home and holy
Honeycomb beeing