Sacred Union Conflict Resolution

“What are you doing! You almost got hit by a car taking that corner too wide!” My voice is a bit raised as my beloved and I ride home. “No I didn’t! They weren’t even close to hitting me!” He defends. It turns out that we have different definitions of “close”. Our...

Queen of Hearts

Woman. Don’t withdraw your love in intimate relationships because you aren’t getting what you want. You will never get what you want with less love. You are hurting yourself. This is a very common emotional tactic that I see woman wield in partnerships to manipulate...

Casual Sex Doesn’t Exist

Casual sex doesn’t exist. There is nothing casual about exchanging sacred sexual fluids. These waters flow as liquid scrolls of light telling a story deeper than could ever be communicated with words. Not just your story but that of your ancestors. Not just the pretty...

Dethroning the Dark Queen

There is someone you need to fire right now. She has got to go. She can’t work for you another second, another day. She’s been ruling for so long that we think it’s normal. Push push push never good enough pain the way we learn. The ultimate critic. The ultimate...

Oracular Musings

There is a theif who wants to steal your peace. “You can’t be at peace now,” says the thief. There is so much to be not peaceful about. Here’s a great reason! That one looses allure? Here’s a better reason! “Oh this one, this one is so great you can’t be at peace! It...

Praying During Sex

If I’m in my head thinking while having sex, I love to switch to prayer and praise. It is so powerful to celebrate and pray for your beloved during lovemaking. To pour your love and gratitude into them. To feel it move and baptize every cell. Give the mind a beautiful...

Mermaid Origin & Legends

Did you know that the first recorded story of a mermaid claims that she lived in a lake, not the ocean? I was shocked when I first heard this. Legend has it that over 3000 years ago in ancient Assyria there lived a goddess by the name of Atargatis or Ataratheh (which...

What is a Water Priestess?

In my definition, a water priestess means being in active devotion to and communion with the waters of life and womb of creation. It is the gnosis that water is an elemental representation of the divine mother. The portal through which light & consciousness is...

Worship Your Lover

Do you want your beloved to adore you like a goddess? Act like one and treat him like a god. Then see how he treats you as the goddess.  I often hear women wishing their men would adore them more in the bedroom. It’s sad, but most men haven’t been taught how to...

How Beautiful You Are

  If you could only see just how beautiful you are How your cells are stars on a canvas of midnight dreams The rhythmic brush strokes on your holy grail that keep spring coming The precious folds of your skin and bones meeting the consciousness of your soul in...
Honoring the Masculine

Honoring the Masculine

Honoring the masculine does not make you subservient. When you devote to the divine masculine, he will move mountains for you. 1/2 ass devotion gets you 1/2 ass support. 1 foot in, 1 foot out doesn’t go very far. Whether you’re in the relationship for a few years or 5...

Worship Your Lover

Worship Your Lover

Do you want your beloved to adore you like a goddess? Act like one and treat him like a god. Then see how he treats you as the goddess.  I often hear women wishing their men would adore them more in the bedroom. It’s sad, but most men haven’t been taught how to...

Natural Fertility & Pregnancy Prevention

Natural Fertility & Pregnancy Prevention

So often we ask how to keep ourselves from becoming pregnant. Yet, I feel an even more important question is how do we protect our sacred fertility? I have never been pregnant. I am so thankful. The excitement I have to be a mama outweighs anything else in my life,...

Lovemaking & Stillness

Lovemaking & Stillness

We were making love the other night and afterwards in the most delicious snuggle bubble were talking about how even though we have been together over two years now, the love making is way more amazing than when we first got together and all the fireworks were...

Mermaid Bath Recipe & Filters

Mermaid Bath Recipe & Filters

Did you know that your bath might be toxic? If you’re a mermaid like me, baths can happen almost on the daily. I love to fill the tub with heavenly hot water, and feel tension melt away. They are my go to anytime I want to feel better physically or...

Thanks & Praises

Thanks & Praises

Today doing early morning kundalini with my beloved, I had a realization. I was thinking about how lately what’s been helping me most in these times is praising the creator. I get up and start praising the beauty of the creation. My thoughts sounding something like,...

Sacred Union Conflict Resolution

Sacred Union Conflict Resolution

“What are you doing! You almost got hit by a car taking that corner too wide!” My voice is a bit raised as my beloved and I ride home. “No I didn’t! They weren’t even close to hitting me!” He defends. It turns out that we have different definitions of “close”. Our...

Crystal Water Offerings

Crystal Water Offerings

Recently, I bought an almost $400 sustainably sourced garnet and offered it in ceremony with holy water, honey and prayers to my favorite waterfall. I know that probably sounds nuts to many of you but hear me out. This is my form of Seva to the Deva. Or service to the...

Mermaid Origin & Legends

Mermaid Origin & Legends

Did you know that the first recorded story of a mermaid claims that she lived in a lake, not the ocean? I was shocked when I first heard this. Legend has it that over 3000 years ago in ancient Assyria there lived a goddess by the name of Atargatis or Ataratheh (which...

My Favorite Name for the G-spot

My Favorite Name for the G-spot

I have always disliked the name G-Spot. To name a sacred part of a female’s body after a man who supposedly “discovered” it is so obviously wrong yet perfectly illustrates the backwards nature of our modern culture. After years of not finding anything better to call...